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But I Don't Know How To Teach!

by Julie Shepherd Knapp, copyright 2006


There are many ways to be a "teacher" to our children.  Think about all
the things that, as parents, we have "taught" our children to do over the
years -- from eating with a spoon, to walking, to buttoning a coat, to right
from wrong.  We don't often read what we want them to know out of a
scripted book.  We teach by example, by helping them "do it themselves"
(supporting them where they need it), sometimes by direct instruction,
sometimes by telling them where to go for what they need to know, and
sometimes by letting them figure it out by themselves, while we watch with
bated breath.  

Often, children who are fresh out of a school setting are used to direct
instruction, and have trouble becoming more independent.  They will wait
to be told what to do along each step of the way.  It is good to help your
children to move into an active role in learning, rather than passively
waiting to be taught.  Most of us want our kids to become lifelong
learners, with the confidence to tackle whatever new skills they will need
in the future.

It usually takes families a few years of homeschooling to get past the
direct teaching method as their main approach... after all, it is what we
grew up with, and what we think of as "school".  And some families never
do move beyond that approach.  Some parents prefer that they (or their
homeschool program) direct the whole show, and it works well for some
families, and for some kids. Others eventually move in different
learning/teaching directions.

There are lots of ways to teach and lots of ways to learn.  The benefit of
homeschooling is that we have the freedom to "mix it up" and try
something different, just to make things interesting.  Here are a few good
articles on the ways different families homeschool.  Hopefully you will find
them useful.  They may even give you the confidence to explain your
methods to those in your life who may wonder how you can really be
teaching, if you aren't in front of the blackboard all day.



15 Common Characteristics of Successful Homeschools (The
Magic is in the Child) advice on becoming a successful homeschooling
parent by Diane Flynn Keith


Lesson 4:  How to Teach What You Don't Know -- by Terrie Bittner
(scroll down past all the ads to find the article ;-)


You Can Teach Your Child Successfully  by Ruth Beechick -- a
Christian-focused writer gives nitty-gritty help for each subject in each
grade (4-8)  (see her 3R's series for K - 3rd)


Learning All the Time:  How small children begin to read. write,
count, and investigate the world, without begin taught by John Holt

Certificate of Empowerment from Sandra Dodd

Multi-sensory Instruction and Learning Styles from Learning Abled
Kids -- what's a kinesthetic learner?  How do you incorporate
multi-sensory teaching techniques?  What are physiological learning
preferences?  This free online tutorial covers it all :-)


Index of Learning Styles and Strategies by Felder & Soloman -- a
description and a short quiz (free online) covering a learning style model
described by formulated by Richard M. Felder and Linda K. Silverman.  
Condsiders the traits of active/reflective, sensing/intuitive, visual/verbal,
and sequential/global.  The quiz questions are aimed at older students --
you will have to think of appropriate substitute questions if you want to do
the quiz with young students. Here is a link to detailed descriptions of the
styles used in this quiz here --
Learning Styles and Strategies


How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk by
Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish -- Maybe you hesitate to homeschool
because you and your child "butt heads" too often?  Or you already
homeschool but you wish there was more cooperation among your
children?  Or you wonder about the most effective ways of praising your
children or how to keep them from becoming trapped in "roles"?  Well,
this book is an excellent place to start.  Topics include strategies for the
situations above, plus, how to engage your child's willing cooperation,
how to express your anger without being hurtful, how to set firm limits and
still maintain goodwill, and how to resolve family conflicts peacefully, and
more.  Includes cartoon examples of parents handling the same situation
in different ways, practical examples, and stories from real parents.  An
amazing approach that really works.. and it's never too late to begin :-)


You can find more advice on teaching different topics in the
Homeschooling by Subject section of the Homeschool Diner,
such as
"How to Teach Art",  "Help Me Teach Math!", and  "How
Do I Teach Science at Home?",



Related Resources

Donna Young Printables -- free forms and charts for keeping track of
high school credits, goals, book lists, making high school transcripts and
diplomas, daily planners, household planners, etc

Homeschool Tracker -- software for tracking assignments, field trips,
making transcripts, etc., use the free basic service or buy the CD-Rom

Student ID Card -- free online template, send with your older children
who need to be "out and about" during the day, or just have fun with it


Related Issues

Respect, Obedience, and Education -- wonderful thoughts on
showing and earning respect in families and schools by Steve Hein

THE PROCRASTINATOR'S GUIDE TO THE GALAXY, AND OTHER
IMPORTANT SPOTS IN THE UNIVERSE by Deirdre V. Lovecky, Ph.D. --
we all know a few procrastinators... what planet are they from? ;-)
"I am convinced that the time spent by the teacher in
digging out of the child what she has put into him,
for the sake of satisfying herself that it has taken root,
is so much time thrown away"
-- Annie Sullivan (Helen Keller's teacher)